#457 – A Secret Podcast Confession, Changing Beliefs About Fasting, 3 Ways To Lose Weight, The Future Of The Show, Getting Enough Protein, Fasting Misconceptions, Calories In Vs. Calories Out, And More!
Welcome to Episode 457: Special Anniversary Part 2 of The Intermittent Fasting Podcast, hosted by Melanie Avalon, biohacker, founder of AvalonX, and author of What When Wine Diet: Lose Weight And Feel Great With Paleo-Style Meals, Intermittent Fasting, And Wine, and Barry Conrad, actor, singer-songwriter, and creator and host of Banter with BC.
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Melanie Avalon
Welcome to episode 457 of the intermittent fasting podcast. If you want to burn fat, gain energy and enhance your health by changing when you eat, not what you eat with no calorie counting, then this show is for you.
I'm Melanie Avalon, biohacker, founder of AvalonX and author of What, Win, Wine, Lose Weight and Feel Great with Paleo Style Meals, Intermittent Fasting and Wine. And I'm joined by my co-hosts, Barry Conrad, actor, singer-songwriter, and creator and host of Banter with BC. For more on us, check out MelanieAvalon.com and BarryConradOfficial.com. You can submit questions for the show by emailing questions at iapodcast.com or by going to iapodcast.com. We would love to hear from you. Please remember the thoughts and opinions on this show do not constitute medical advice or treatment. So pour yourself a mug of black coffee, a cup of tea, or even a glass of wine if it's that time and get ready for the intermittent fasting podcast. Hi everybody and welcome. This is episode number 457 of the intermittent fasting podcast. I'm Melanie Avalon. I'm here with Barry Conrad. Barry, welcome to our special part two anniversary celebration episode.
Barry Conrad
Thank you for the warm welcome, Mel. I'm so excited.
Our second part of our anniversary is celebrating our anniversary one year, and we're happy to be here with you listeners as well. Thank you for tuning in to party with us and celebrate.
Melanie Avalon
I'm just having so much fun. It was so much fun last week doing the questions and talking about what goes into the show and some of our favorite memories. So I'm really excited to continue it today.
Same. Before we jump into questions, what is new in your world?
Barry Conrad
What is new in my world? This is, I know this is way in the past, but I am going to be for the very first time making cornbread.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, I literally had no idea what you were about to say, like my mind went like 20 different directions. So what is he going to say?
I was like, he's going to make a movie, make a baby, like what are you making?
Barry Conrad
that'll be coming soon. Yeah, I'm making cornbread for the first time. I know this is maybe not that exciting listeners, but I'm having my first Thanksgiving in two days and I'm getting right into the spurts. I'm doing greens and cornbread. That's what I'm bringing to the sort of like friends giving with a whole bunch of people. So I'm super stoked about it.
I've test driven the cornbread once before, but I'm making it for people for the first time. So wish me luck. I think the first time was really great. Well, I think you'd really approve even though you may maybe not eat it, but you'll look at my reaction to eating it and seeing that I enjoyed it. So yeah.
Melanie Avalon
So did you know, I haven't thought about this before, but I think cornbread is up there for one of my most, probably like top five nostalgic foods. Really? Yeah. And it's not because I particularly loved cornbread, which by the way, is like a very Southern thing.
So they don't have cornbread in Australia.
Barry Conrad
No way. It's nothing. And this is like a niche, you know, pop up or something, but it's not definitely not Australian.
Melanie Avalon
So my aunt Judy, shout out to Judy, she's an incredible chef and she used to have a restaurant in Athens, Georgia. And we used to always go growing up.
And she had Walter's cornbread. So Walter is the name of my grandfather. And it was like a spicy jalapeno, jalapeno. That's a question. Do you say jalapeno or jalapeno? What do you say?
Barry Conrad
Helipino. Helipino. It's got to be helipino. You say helipino.
Melanie Avalon
Some people say jalapeno, which I find, I don't know if I don't like that, but I also don't like jalapenos very much. But there were these spicy cornbreads and I think she even won awards for them. So it's very nostalgic for me because it reminds me of when I was eating that, it's like when I was at the restaurant with the family and my grandfather loved it. So yeah, I'm team cornbread, yay, that you are making it.
I've never made it. I wouldn't know where to start.
Barry Conrad
Does your mom make it for Thanksgiving or is that not really a thing?
Melanie Avalon
No, it was really just like that, my aunt and so I guess we would always have it at that Thanksgiving at that side of the family. But no, it's not like something my mom would make, I don't think.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, I'm really, really excited because it's delicious and I'm not going to lie, I treated myself on my treat day by smashing a whole lot of it, aka half of the whole thing, but it was really, really good.
Melanie Avalon
I want pictures. Did you post pictures yet on Instagram?
Barry Conrad
I haven't posted yet. I did take a photo of the first one, but it wasn't really like a, it wasn't like a photo for the gram.
So I had like a shadow on it. Maybe I'll do one on, not maybe, I will do one and I'll have to send it to you.
Melanie Avalon
the Gram. This is another reason we'll be talking more about our relationship and such, but I think a reason, not the reason we get along so well, but a reason we will get along so well in real life is I feel like we perfectly understand each other's relationship to Instagram.
Barry Conrad
Do you reckon?
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, you know, like I feel like we would have a really nice balance of like making sure we capture the moments, but also like not being in our phones the whole time, you know, like, I feel like, I feel like it'll go well.
Barry Conrad
I actually agree because this is something that it's a thing like and let me zoom out and say I'm sure that you've been in scenarios malware. Some people are just sitting there the whole time on their phone and not even engage and then equally. Some people stick was like, don't even look at you for once. Like, you know.
Melanie Avalon
Exactly. And so when I'm in a social situation, I am not. The only reason I'm going to get on my phone is to take the Instagram footage or if we are looking up something that we need to look up. But I don't get on my phone otherwise.
I mean, I don't think I do. I really try not to. But it's like, I really do enjoy taking the boomerangs of the drinks and taking pictures together. I really enjoy that. And some people, I feel like I'm in a lot. Oftentimes, I'm in group situations where I feel bad because I'm like, they don't want to be doing this right now. So then I feel like, you know, not good.
Barry Conrad
You can feel it in the air to some people aren't and also fair enough some people on social media people or photo people but it's just for a moment and it's it's a memory that you can capture for the future you know.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. The worst is I feel so bad.
I feel like this happens a lot. I'll be with people who are being very accommodating. So they'll take the pictures. They don't complain or anything, but then they'll make comments like, just one or something like that. And then it's like, oh man, I got to get it all in one. And then I feel guilty because I know they don't want to be taking pictures. So I always do with those people, I always do one and then one for safety, one for safety. Or 10 for safety, not really.
Barry Conrad
That's so funny. I'd like to know, I'd like to see you in, in your element, because I know that you, you always, I want to, cause you always do your, what is obligatory?
Melanie Avalon
obligatory bathroom selfie.
Barry Conrad
And the one that you do before you leave home and stuff right.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, so there's always, so I think there's probably four, there's five, six, six, depending on what it is, pictures that must happen every outing.
Barry Conrad
So this is melanie's social media playbook okay go what are the money.
Melanie Avalon
Do you think you can guess them?
Barry Conrad
Okay, I'll try. Okay, the mirror one in your apartment before you leave.
Melanie Avalon
Like the walking? Yes.
Barry Conrad
Yeah. The next one will be a, well, definitely, maybe not an order, but the boomerang of the drinks, a selfie with faces of the people that you're with. Yes. A bathroom selfie.
Melanie Avalon
Yes, you got four.
Barry Conrad
And when you get a home...
Melanie Avalon
No opposite. There's one more before I leave. It's the first one. I actually always post and there's something on on it
Barry Conrad
like a patch on your arm or like a product or something like that.
Melanie Avalon
No, I do take product pictures while getting ready. There's the first one I always post though is the, like, where am I going?
Barry Conrad
Yes, of course. Where am I going?
Melanie Avalon
So like not in the mirror, but like a selfie and then like wear two friends and then I put a hint.
Barry Conrad
And then definitely the recovery photo as well.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, you're right. So that's the next day. So that's yeah, that's like a bonus one nicely done. I forgot about that.
The only one you left out was if it's a like if it's a show, I have to obviously get a picture of like curtain call.
Barry Conrad
Yes, or even like walking down the aisle, remember that thing that you do?
Melanie Avalon
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. And if there's an aisle, so those are two, if it's a show, there's two additional that must happen.
One is the actual curtain call, which is the only time you can actually, unless it's like, start to slay or something, when you can actually like take a picture of the performers and then walking down the aisle, you know.
Barry Conrad
I feel like you have your playbook down pat.
Melanie Avalon
I know, I didn't realize I had this playbook, but yeah. Do you have a playbook? I don't know. You gotta get one. You gotta up your game.
Barry Conrad
Do you think I have a playbook? I don't know. I think my social media has evolved over time, but I don't know.
Melanie Avalon
So I would say you don't really, you know, I feel like it's like it's like a different blend. Like you will take the pictures of like, well, I feel like whenever you're when you have like a suit or something that you're wearing for a brand, you know, the pictures of that.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, a couple of ones.
Melanie Avalon
But like do you so for example like comparing to my playbook do you have to make sure that you get a picture of the people that you're with if they want to be in the picture.
Barry Conrad
I try to feel at the vibe if the people at the like the event, if the event is like selfie friendly, I'll do that. And then if the people, if it feels like a natural moment, I'll do it. I won't just like pull it up just because, you know, it has to have good lighting and a good, like, you know, good background situation. Like what's happening behind me? Is there a vibe? Is it just like a wall? What's happening?
Melanie Avalon
Wait, Barry, do you have the beauty plus app? No, this is going to change your life.
Well, I mean, you always look great in the pictures, but this is going to change. I changed my, it changed my life. What is it? It's beauty plus it's an app and it basically, the way I describe it is because people are like, Oh, it's filters. No, it, it captures your true spirit in the most better way. So, but like you, it uses, like you pull up the app and then you take pictures in the app, like your selfies, and it will a just the original like non-filtered version, it makes you look better. And then you can like go in and edit the photos with, they have all these edits you can do.
Barry Conrad
You got to show me like an example of it.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, you have an iPhone. So just get the beauty plus app. I promise you, it's one of the few apps I subscribe to yearly.
Oh, that would be a fun question. Like, like what like what apps are worth, you know, like forking over money and like committing to and it is like, I mean, it might be number one for me there. Honestly.
Barry Conrad
That's a big deal. I didn't, had no idea that this was a thing.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, my friend Katie, shout out to Katie, she introduced me to it a few like a year ago, two years ago maybe and never looked back. Now I turn everybody else on to it as well.
Barry Conrad
Okay. Now I'm going to have to look this up after the show and just see, is it's not going to be one of those apps that like distorts your, you know, like those face me apps.
You know, the one where it puts it like a different face, like it's all like AI.
Melanie Avalon
They probably have those options, but the main thing I use it for is just make, so every picture you see on my profile that was taken, if it's of me, was taken with Beauty Plus.
Barry Conrad
Wow. Okay, I need to check it out to see what I look like taking it.
Melanie Avalon
It's great. Then you find the filters that you like the most.
I will say just quickly, because I don't think I've thought about this before, but I think so if I'm going on a date with somebody I haven't met or somebody new, one of the moments I'm most nervous about is how are they going to be about pictures? If I had this moment where I'm like, oh, they're okay, it's like no big deal, it's just like, oh, sigh of relief. I'm not obnoxious or annoying, I promise. I just like to get the picture.
Barry Conrad
Like how, is it something that preoccupies you, like if you're going on a date, how soon into the night are you thinking the picture, got to get the picture, got to get the picture before my appearance changes or like, cause you know, you said like a lot of things happen Barry, from the car to the-
Melanie Avalon
Oh yes, Barry does not understand how I have to get there early so I can go to the bathroom so I can, a lot happens between the car and getting there, a lot.
Barry Conrad
How? It's nothing's you sitting down.
Melanie Avalon
walking, you just got to have your like moment in the bathroom and then being your element in my dream world. But I can't do this on a date because then okay, here's the here's the irony.
Oh my goodness, Barry, I'm having like an in real time epiphany. The irony here is that in my dream world, say I'm going on a date with a man I haven't met, I would want to get a picture really soon. So then like, I'm done, I have my picture, I don't have to worry about it. But if I do that, like ask for a picture right at the beginning, then I seem like the crazy chick that like needs to be on Instagram all the time. But it's like, no, actually, it's so I can like be done and like not take pictures. But that's not that's not how I manifest. Typically, I do it like later in the evening.
Barry Conrad
How would you just organically bring that up early in the night? What would you say if you had to or what have you said early in the evening?
Melanie Avalon
Well, usually I test it with the drinks, like the boomerang of the drinks. Can we do a boomerang of the drinks? And you kind of like can gauge their, their reaction. And if it's like, no big deal, super chill, it's like, okay, I can probably ask for the selfie like earlier than later, but if I'm like hesitant, then I, well, I'll just wait till the end. Usually get some wine in me.
Barry Conrad
That's so funny, but you're thinking about it the whole time, right?
Melanie Avalon
I'm thinking if I don't have the, I'm not thinking about it like actively, but if I don't have the picture yet, I like, you know, it's like the thing on the back burner, like the little, like little fly, like the little like thing on your shoulder. Like I just can we, you know, it's like, it's just there and the, it's like the buzzing in the background.
Barry Conrad
And is there a specific type, like does someone have to take it off you or do you have to do this, hold the phone yourself?
Melanie Avalon
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, not of us. Oh, oh, like a selfie though? Oh, they can hold it if it's a selfie. Yeah. But I can't even tell you how many times people walk up and like offer to take pictures. And I'm like, no, I'm good. Like I say it, I say it nicer. But yeah.
Barry Conrad
Boy!
Melanie Avalon
It's nice to control what you can see.
Barry Conrad
You don't like someone just holding and just taking a photo of you guys?
Melanie Avalon
No, I'll do it, but yeah.
Barry Conrad
That's really funny. So many things to look forward to when we finally meet, just to see what you like. There's the phone, a lot happening from the car.
Melanie Avalon
I sound so annoying from that whole monologue. I'm not like in my phone the whole time, I promise. I like to be in the moment. I just like to capture it and remember it as well.
Barry Conrad
Mm-hmm. I get that.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, this is why this is what brought this up. I feel like you and I will get along fine with the pictures
Barry Conrad
Yeah, as long as you're not taking like calls at the table. Sorry, taking another call. Like, you know.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, yeah. Oh, no. No, like I said, like, I'm not going to text other people. I'm not. Yeah, maybe in the bathroom.
Barry Conrad
We should put up a poll and it's not fast and related but if listeners like what what do you think about phones at the table do you have no friends at the table that what's the situation like you know think of a couple questions.
Melanie Avalon
Like, at the dinner table, I say no phones. Same. Unless, like I said, you need to look up something. But even then, most things can be looked up later.
Barry Conrad
I agree. It's nice to give people your attention at the table, you know?
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. Anything else or should we jump into the testing stuff?
Barry Conrad
Let's jump on in.
Melanie Avalon
So, like I said, listeners, if you missed last week's episode, go check it out because we did five super fun questions about the show, how we met, one of our, you know, most memorable episodes, et cetera, and we have five more today.
So first question, Barry, what is one belief about fasting you used to hold that you no longer believe after doing the show together?
Barry Conrad
Wow. Well, it's sort of similar to another answer that I gave last episode, but it's true. It's not so much that I stopped believing something you used to. It's more, I think, doing the show with you, Mel. It's really massively expanded more my understanding of what fasting actually does for the body. You know, it's gone way beyond the initial situation I had in my head when I first started. I came into it specifically for mental clarity and obviously energy and physical results for sure, and that simple protocol. But through doing the show, I love the show, is I've realized IF just does way more under the surface than I ever, ever, ever appreciated or anticipated. So I'm blown away just how many layers there are to what we do and inflammation, gut risk, brain health, mood regulation, cravings, longevity, body composition, human growth hormone, autophagy. And as the shows went on from when I started till now, especially initially, but always, I keep going, wow, that too, fasting does that too. It helps with that too. And that is really genuinely enlightening every week.
So it's not necessarily something I stopped believing in or I don't think any more, but there's more that I believe in, more than I realize. It's not just a way of eating or a diet. It's such a lifestyle, lifelong friendly tool. You know, it's something that doesn't go out of fashion. And that's what I love. It's reliable. And so many things, like I'm getting so much more compliments now on my skin, my muscle. I'm noticing so much more stability in my cravings, actually my moods. And yeah, just brain fog. There's so many things that elicit endless. So again, to not to be redundant, there's not one thing that I stopped believing, but it's more that I've, there's more things that I've started believing from doing the show. What about you, Mel?
Melanie Avalon
I love it. And actually to that point, one thing I really love about how we do the show together with the format, because we came up with the idea of alternating and like one of us doing a study each week. And it's really, it's like really fun.
I love finding the studies. So I love, I think we've talked about this before, like how we go about finding the studies that we pick, but mine is usually, I usually come up with an idea that I want to learn more about and I hope that there's like a fasting study about it and I try to find a study about it. But so I love like finding a study. I love prepping it. And then I love the weeks that you bring the study because I just have no idea what it's going to be. And so it's really fun. It's like a really fun surprise each week. And I thought about it because you were talking about all the benefits and I've appreciated a lot of the studies that you've brought have been about specific benefits of fasting because I was thinking about the one like about like the lungs. I think there was one about like, was it about lung inflammation or something about, do you remember which one it was?
Barry Conrad
Yeah, there's like lung support, also sperm motility, and yeah, there's so many things, so many benefits, yeah.
Melanie Avalon
I remember when you brought the sperm woman, I was like, oh, this is so great to actually have, I mean, like a male co-host on the show. So yes, but so one for me that, so a belief that I used to hold that I no longer believe. It's not so much a belief that I used to hold completely that I lost, but it's more a greater appreciation of one of the common fasting fears, which is that you can't get enough protein in your eating window. And it's nice because like, I know I can, but, you know, Cynthia used to call me like the mythical unicorn and like, you know, I felt kind of really unique in that aspect, but it's nice because you also, you know, it's on a protein like me. So it's nice to see somebody else doing it in real time.
And I think the more I've like continued to do the high protein, the more I've realized how doable it is. And I think something that's important for people to keep in mind is like, if you're trying to get enough protein leading with protein, so not like filling up first on like fat or carbs, like you can, if you make protein the center and then build around that, I think it's easier to eat more protein. I think digestive enzymes for protein are so, so helpful for getting enough protein. And I'm so excited because I, you know, just launched as of this recording, my Avalon X digest, which that will, if you want to get, if you want to get enough protein in your eating window, that will really help you break it down, help you assimilate more protein. So definitely check that out. You can use the code I have podcasts for 10% off at Avalon X.us. But the other thing also related to protein, and I think I talked about this in one of the questions last week, but it's nice having a male co-host and having you because I've been able to speak about the experience as a female and eating protein, but I can't speak about like being a male eating protein and maintaining muscle and all of that. So it's been really nice to see you, you know, living the life, eating the protein in a one meal a day pattern and maintaining and building that muscle. So that's been, I guess my concerns about protein have been mostly alleviated now.
Barry Conrad
That's so good. And that's really kind of you to say, you know, one of the things that's so unique about us doing the show together, and I get this feedback from a lot of people that I put onto the podcast is I love the dynamic between the male and the female, you know, that just different perspectives naturally. Like you can't, you can't script that you can't manufacture that just innately. We're going to have different points of view.
Physiologically, we are different. So it's going to just be different to share how fasting affects us affects our digestion, how we experience muscle growth, all of the things, weight loss. And yeah, so that that's been super exciting. And also we keep discovering new studies. Well, new science keeps evolving and coming to the surface. That protein really is really is king. It really is amazing for us. And there's so there's been so much fear around that. And so yeah, just take what you said. I just, I love that protein is it's such a big part of both of our protocols and that we prioritize it and advocates for living advocates for it, I should say.
Melanie Avalon
It's really interesting, too, that the past three, including you, co-hosts, have all been very team-high protein. So, Cynthia, very high protein, or supportive of eating higher protein, same with Vanessa and you.
But the thing that I already said it, but to say it again, me, Vanessa, Cynthia, are all women. So, it's been really nice to see the male eating the protein in one meal a day, and that it's doable.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, and hopefully it's not. It's more than doable and hope.
What I don't like is that when females are, you know, I wouldn't say demonized, but maybe like, you know, maybe put down for eating too much or, you know, eating proteins, if that's not like a feminine thing to do, it's like, it's important. It doesn't matter what gender you are, what you identify as protein, we all need it. You know, so it's just, it's funny. Do you get that?
Melanie Avalon
It doesn't actually bother me personally as me. I think it is a thing for other people. But for me, it's kind of makes me proud, you know? Because I'm like, yeah, I eat a lot of protein. Take that.
But I do think that is an issue in general with just the stereotypes and everything, the stigmas. OK, shall we do our next question?
Barry Conrad
Let's do it. So the next question is, what do you think is the biggest misconception listeners still have about fasting? What do you reckon, Mel?
Melanie Avalon
So this is funny because I realized I was going to do the protein for this one, but it actually answers it. So everything I just said for the last question also applies to this question, so the protein stuff. So I'm going to do two answers because I want to say what I was going to say for the prior one as well, which I think a misconception I've had is that if you're doing a one-meal-a-day situation, that it would be easier to always do it at the same time. So for me, always having the dinner eating one meal a day, it's been really nice getting to know you.
And you talked about this last episode about the flexibility that you've begun to experience with when you break your fast and how you typically do fast 20 hours, but it doesn't have to be at any certain set time. It's been really nice and interesting to see how you do the fasting. And it's definitely changed some misconceptions I have about how it would be easier to do it the same time every day because you'll change it around a bit. So that's been really cool. And then other biggest misconceptions? OK, so I think now this is just a few different ones I'm thinking of. So I think, and we talked about this last time, but I think there is a, well, A, I think people think that you really need to eat earlier in the day, like necessarily for the optimal health. And we see that that's not necessarily always the case, that some people can eat later and it works. I think there's still a big concern about for women, that fasting is bad for women. And here's one that's interesting. There's definitely a lot of concerns about fasting in women. And especially a lot of people will think that when you're in menopause, the older you get, that fasting is even more problematic. When honestly, it seems like that's where some of the greatest benefits come, with regulating hormones. And then when you're not cycling anymore, there isn't that added layer of concern about your cycle or anything like that. So I think misconceptions about women and fasting. So protein, women and fasting, and eating timing. How about you?
Barry Conrad
It's so hard to answer these questions because there's so many answers, but I would say two big ones still stand up for me. I would say one being that fasting is still just about, especially maybe new listeners or new people to intermittent fasting or flirting with your idea of intermittent fasting, that it's just starving, that it's just restriction, and it's extreme or something you do because you're unhappy with your body or trying to punish your body for not looking or performing a certain way. And I get that we live in a world that's constantly pushing that message of every ad, every headline. It can sometimes seem to come from this place of guilt or body fear or body shame. I can understand that some people may assume that, but it's really not. If that's a mindset that people start with, fasting is always going to feel like a battle or deprivation and something that you have to endure rather than realize it's something that's going to support our lives.
I think what a lot of people, once they stick with it and they learn, is that fasting is not a style. It's actually something we choose with a lot of awareness and intention. It actually teaches us so much about how a body works instead of fighting it. Once people realize that, I think the whole experience starts to shift. I think the second misconception that really frustrates me is the whole calories in, calories out thing. It's not that simple. I think this might frustrate me the most because it reduces this awesome adaptive process down to basic math because it's not just that. Fasting works on an emotional level, a metabolic level, hormonal level, psychological level. It's not just about calories. It's so much more peace of mind. Stress corresponds to sleep cycles, autophagy, cravings, digestion, cellular repair. I think the emotional stability that shows up when our blood sugar stops swinging, there's so many things. Then there's also the societal piece that I was talking about. We live in this culture that teaches us to eat every two hours or three meals a day or just snack constantly, never feel hunger, always fuel our bodies all day. When you fast, everyone suddenly can have an opinion about that. There's a lot of it's not actually that impossible. It's actually not what a lot of people make it out to be, so it's just a lot of noise. Lots of misconceptions out there.
Melanie Avalon
Those were really great, and the first one you were talking about, if listeners would like to hear more about that, it reminds me of the study we talked about, I think maybe two or three weeks ago, and it was the one about how your pre-existing beliefs about meal timing. So like, do you need to be eating 24-7, or do you need to be having breakfast? Like that affected whether or not people sustained fasting or not, and it changed their habits. So people who had these fears, they would eat food because they thought it was making them full rather than for the enjoyment, and then they were less likely to sustain fasting. So it just really speaks to what you're saying about how pervasive and how intense of an effect those thoughts have.
The thing about the calories in, calories out that really distresses me a little bit is it's so binary. People think, oh, it's all calories in, calories out, or calories don't matter, and it's all about insulin or hormones or whatever. And I'm like, what I think, and I just wish people could understand this subtle nuance, is in the end, yes, it is calories because it is, if you gain weight, but it's not calories in, calories out, it's if you gained weight, you stored more calories than you burned, like period. If you lose weight, you burn more calories than you took in, period. But it's like the math problem of that is not calories in, calories out. People are doing the wrong math problem. The math problem is so much more complicated than that. It's kind of like people think that it's like addition that you learn in kindergarten and subtraction when really it's like the type of math you do, I don't know, where you have to do the whole proof, and it's like pages and pages of math and all these things. That's what it's like because there's all these different factors affecting things about whether or not the calories that you take into your body physically, whether or not they actually become fat. So hormones, insulin, the gut microbiome, your body's just ability to metabolically change it to fat. Does the body decide, quote, decide? Some people, their body decides for whatever reason, like when you have excess calories to burn it off as heat, whereas other people store it. So yes, I think the math, we are doing the wrong math problem is my thoughts.
Barry Conrad
I wish this was screened on primetime TV. I want this to be just in school, learning about this because it's so useful. Help support and enlighten people's perspective and have a more healthy relationship with food in general, I should say.
Melanie Avalon
It's so true. Yes. So you just you literally cannot do that simple math problem. You don't have all the information you need to get the answer.
Barry Conrad
If we did, everyone would just be the size of whatever, like whatever they wanted. It's not that simple.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. That was fun.
Okay. Next one. Okay. If you could bring any dream guest on the show next year, who would it be and why? I'm excited to hear what yours is. Oh, man. I don't think I can, I don't think I could even guess. Can I guess?
Barry Conrad
Yeah, you can guess.
Melanie Avalon
Do I know this person? Oh, can we play the guessing game, both of us? Do I know this person? Like, do I know of this person?
Barry Conrad
Yes, you do.
Melanie Avalon
Do I know them personally? No. Well, obviously not. Is it a male? Mm-hmm. Is it somebody in the nutrition world?
Barry Conrad
Not per se, but no.
Melanie Avalon
Is it somebody in the fitness world?
Barry Conrad
has good nutrition.
Melanie Avalon
Is it somebody in the entertainment world? Yes. Okay, so it's somebody in the entertainment world and would they speak to like nutrition and things like that? Yep.
So is it an actor? Yes. Is it Hugh Jackman? Yes.
You know what Barry, I knew it like three questions ago but I was just making sure. What do you mean? Like I kind of milked it but I knew who it was.
Barry Conrad
Hmm, you just kind of had a hunch.
Melanie Avalon
Actually, once you said that it was somebody, I just sensed pretty quickly that it was somebody in the entertainment industry who has a really good physique, who you look up to, and yeah. Didn't you work with him in some capacity?
Barry Conrad
I didn't work with him some capacity, but I did, well, by working, I did fly, well, I was lowered down onto a stage using his harness, his harness from.
Melanie Avalon
using his harness.
Barry Conrad
There we go, that's something and I met his then wife, but that's it, but the reason why I chose Hugh Jackman, everyone is because Mel, you know this long before I came on the podcast, he was someone whose approach to health and discipline and performance really helped shape my interest in it and he's one of my favorite actors, he's an X-Men which I'm obsessed with, Marvel, and he did intermittent fasting.
Melanie Avalon
He did fasting.
Barry Conrad
It is intermittent fasting cuz I was trying to level up my fasting game my fitness game and when I read in this magazine that he was doing intermittent fastens of what is that. What is that thing and he was literally the person the first person that I read or saw who did it and that's what actually made me want to try and that's when.
After that I had to find all the information about fasting which then lead to finding this podcast is not crazy.
Melanie Avalon
I love it. We should manifest this.
Barry Conrad
That's what it was. So I'd love to ask him, how did he stumble on sentimental fasting? Why? What attracted him to him to it?
Because everyone, if you look at his physique from the Wolverine movies, he's jacked. He's not skinny or like scrawny, I should say is like the picture of health and muscle and like huge sorts. Like I'd love to talk and ask him about what he ate, you know, what he prioritized, macronutrient wise, what his protocol was from the beginning of the filming period to the end. If he still does it now, you know, like how he manages that when he travels, all the questions we like to know, I'd love to ask him that and just geek out.
Melanie Avalon
Oh my goodness. That is such a good answer. Yes, that's like the perfect answer.
Barry Conrad
What about you? I don't think I'm not going to guess yours, am I?
Melanie Avalon
probably not. I mean, it's probably the person that I have not had on any of my shows that I talk about the most as like a guidance person in the health and wellness space.
Barry Conrad
Okay, is it a male or female?
Melanie Avalon
That's not a yes, no question. It's a male. Fairy can't play the yes, no game. Is it a male? Yes.
Barry Conrad
Is it, is the male, like a biohacking sort of, you know, king, I should say, pioneer.
Melanie Avalon
If he was called that, people might call him that. If he did, he would hate that. He very much dislikes the biohacking term. He's not a fan.
Barry Conrad
Would it be Mark Sisson?
Melanie Avalon
You know, I just met him in person and I've had him. I've had him. He's been on the show. He's been on the show and he's been on my other show.
Barry Conrad
Actually, hold on, I think I know what it is.
Melanie Avalon
You might not know his name. I mean, I think you know his name, but I don't know if you would like come up with, like, I don't think it's like somebody in your, like, that you listened to. So you probably would, you'd be like, Oh yeah, you talk, you do talk about him, but I don't know if you would be able to pull his name out of a hat. If that makes sense.
So that would be my second option.
Barry Conrad
You got to tell me, I'm out of strikes.
Melanie Avalon
Peter Atea.
Barry Conrad
I know who that is. I know who Peter is. Damn, I should have guessed that. I know who that is. I've seen him on Thomas DeLauer's content a lot as well.
Melanie Avalon
I'm obsessed with his podcast. I listen to every episode.
I think I told you one of the best days of my life was the day I got a personal rejection email from him. Really? Mm-hmm. because it wasn't just like the... Did I tell you this?
Barry Conrad
Sounds vaguely familiar, but refresh my memory.
Melanie Avalon
I probably, I know I've told it before, but so at the expense of being repetitive, he had this book coming out and I was trying everything I could to get him on the show and I have, we have, so we have a lot of mutual friends. So I got them to text him and same with Huberman, but I finally, I heard back. So rather than getting like the, the, uh, template rejection email from his team. I got like a rejection email from him.
It was definitely him because he was literally like, I really hate going on podcasts, just FYI, like he was like, he was like, I'll check, but I like, don't like going on podcasts. And it was like Peter. I was like, Oh my gosh. Yes. I mean, no, but yes. And I remember I had a good friend at the time who knows him really well. And I was like, is this Peter? And he was like, yeah, that's Peter for sure.
Barry Conrad
Sure. Would you ever try and get him again? Oh, for sure.
Melanie Avalon
And it's in my long-term game plan. I think what's going to happen, I just have to meet him at a party. I feel like that's the only way this is going to happen.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, but I've read a few different things or heard a few different sound bites of him and his approach to fasting because his opinions changed on intermittent fasting, right?
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. Yeah. He definitely went from like, so he used to fast a lot and this is, this is something I will talk to him about at a cocktail party or on the podcast, probably at a cocktail party. I think because what he was doing a lot for fasting in the past was he was doing, I don't know if it was quarterly or monthly. It was a lot, but it was like four day or five day fasts and he lost a lot of muscle from it. I think he took his experience of that and let it filter into his thoughts on fasting in general because he was pretty down on fasting for quite a while.
I feel like he's come around now, but I do think, I do think he had a bias from his experience of doing too many long fasts that maybe he shouldn't have been doing. He talks a lot about like maintaining muscle on fasting and I'm like, there's a big difference between intermittent fasting and like what he was doing, which was, you know, multiple multi-day fast.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, that's not the same. I think a lot of people can lump that. It's not the same thing.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. So intermittent fasting. But he does say, one thing I do like, just one last thing.
One thing I like that he does say is he says to lose weight, you basically, there's like three options and they're all about cutting something out or restriction. I don't know what word he uses, but it's like you either restrict your time, so you do fasting. You restrict your type of food, your macros. So you do like low carb, low fat, or you restrict your amount of food, your calories. He's like, those are like basically the three ways.
Barry Conrad
What do you think about that?
Melanie Avalon
I mean, I pretty much agree, at least on the input side of things. So if we're not talking about like exercising and like burning off with physical activity, I mean those I think would be the three, the three things I don't know what else I don't know what other option there would be either like the amount of food, the type of food or when you eat the food.
Barry Conrad
I agree. Yeah, yeah, interesting.
Melanie Avalon
So yeah, maybe we can Oh, wait, he's like, he's like, Barry, one of his best friends is Hugh Jackman. Really? Yeah, yeah, yeah. They're like buddies.
I'm going to send you. He said Hugh Jackman on the show a few times. So you would really like that those episodes, I think
Barry Conrad
Oh, wow. I had no idea. Well, I need to listen to that thing because maybe that'll answer some of the questions that I had before you could be a guest.
Melanie Avalon
Man, now we have to really manifest this.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, anything's possible, seriously.
Melanie Avalon
I agree.
Barry Conrad
And one last thing on that, you know, do you ever think of when we talk about guests, when you think about guests, do you ever imagine sometimes having like a round table, like at a cocktail party and you're just eating and just drinking and just talking about all the stuff, all these leaders and all these big hitters in the world, just to see what their real opinions are? It'd be so interesting.
Melanie Avalon
with those people or talking about those people.
Barry Conrad
No, with those people.
Melanie Avalon
And it's kind of weird. I mean, it's not exactly the same thing, but it's weird that I've gotten to the place now where I go to conferences and stuff, and I'll be at dinners or I'll be at parties where it is a lot of these people. And that's just, it's really mind blowing to me that that could manifest. But yeah, that would be amazing to have drinks and get people's real opinions on stuff.
Somebody told me a story the other day. They said that they met Rhonda Patrick and, it might have been Peter, it was like Rhonda Patrick and one other person. And he said it was pretty mind blowing or funny because they were literally talking, like what they were talking about was so like, basically just a deep dive into the stuff. Like it was like really legit, like really intense. So I think they talk offline, similar to the way they talk on the podcast, or they have those conversations. Kind of like I think you and I do and would.
Wait, if you could have like, okay, so like pick a dream, like a dinner party and you can have... Ah, that's too hard. I know. Also, I realized my answer should have been Taylor Swift, but...
Barry Conrad
Maybe she, I mean, who knows, maybe she is into some sort of health thing, nutrition.
Melanie Avalon
I keep praying like she's going to decide to start doing intermittent fasting and like get obsessed. And then she's going to be like, well, let me find a podcast about this.
And then she'll be like the intermittent fasting podcast. Oh, I'll listen to that.
Barry Conrad
She might do it. Who knows? There's a lot of people that probably do do it without us knowing, right?
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, probably. Yeah, so if you could have five people, is this okay, let's do five people any any like a dinner party, anything goes just a dinner party.
And we're both there. So we don't count. But like five other five guests.
Barry Conrad
Oh man, that's really tough. Uh, does it have, does it have to include Hugh Jackman as well?
Melanie Avalon
I think it would, yeah, because I mean, it doesn't have to. No, it doesn't have to, but.
Barry Conrad
Man, this is tough. This is really hard.
Okay, let me just think of the top of my head and a combination of people in the biohacking world. Different, like, areas. Okay, great. So, Huberman, I think he'd be interesting. Hugh Jackman, Cynthia Riva.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, which you met her right at the party.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, she was really cool and who else? Denzel Washington? These are all just guys and maybe Jennifer Aniston.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, Jennifer Aniston, did you have a crush on her growing up, like in Friends?
Barry Conrad
A huge crash, yeah.
Melanie Avalon
You know what's funny about her? Like she's such a crushable, like I think she's such a crushable female for like men always have crushes on her.
I think she's beautiful but there's something about her personality I think that makes people fall in love with her a lot.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, I don't know, she is crushable. People just have that quality, right? They're just like...
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, she's got the crushable quality. Did we just coin that? I think we did. You know, who else is crushable? I was talking about this with a friend actually from frozen who does the voice of Ana.
Barry Conrad
Oh, yeah, Chris and Bill.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, just like very crushable like very cute fun quirky good vibe. Yeah
Barry Conrad
You know what, after I said this, there's so many more people that I'd want. That was just the first five people I thought of straight away, but there's so many people.
Melanie Avalon
Okay, so it doesn't have to be the final list listeners, don't hold Barry to that when we have our party and it's different people. Mine would probably be... Taylor Swift. Taylor Swift, yeah, obviously. So Taylor Swift, Peter, Tia.
I actually do think Huberman. And then this is hard to do like in the moment. Oh, Johnny Depp. And do I need another woman probably? Actually, I might bring Dave Asprey, even though I do know him, but I think he would provide an interesting... Yeah, I got to think about that some more though. I might change it to somebody like in the entertainment industry. Oh, oh, oh, wait. Oh, my goodness. How about my... No, backtrack, Lana Del Rey. Okay.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, Lana and Taylor will be like talking and chilling out and with you.
Melanie Avalon
Lana and Taylor and you and me, Huberman, Peter, Tia. Oh my gosh, this is the best party ever. Oh, and Blake Lively is as a backup because that's my girl crush.
Barry Conrad
I think she's super hot. I've always thought that she's crushable for sure. you
Melanie Avalon
Oh, she's so crushable. Some people, though, don't like her crushable-wise. So maybe she's not crushable because I feel like she's polarizing.
Barry Conrad
That's kinda good though.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, I think so. On that note, two more questions?
Barry Conrad
The next question is, where do you see the show going over the next year?
Melanie Avalon
Okay, so I think so when we were prepping this for this anniversary episode, we were talking with chat GPT for ideas and it gave us like some other really good ideas. So I definitely want to revisit some of those. Like it was like some good ideas for just some like episode topics that we could do different formats. For example, it suggested a like a MythBuster fasting edition episode. I think that would be fun. A fasting confessions episode, which I think could be fun. And that one we could like get fasting confessions from listeners. So I think that would be fun.
Let's see, there was one about hot takes and hard questions. So having like listeners submit their most controversial questions. And then like a fasting games where we like play games on on air. So like to we should do this for sure. Two truths and a lie, but only fasting or health related. Oh my gosh, we should do that next. We have a really fun. Yeah, so I like the different ideas. I think implementing them. I would love at some point in the future to have this as a video show. I just know like logistically, that's difficult. I think if we lived in the same city, we would, I don't know, I would really want to do that. We're in the same city. Yeah. So I think I think focusing on maybe getting the listeners more involved, trying some new formats, and then I would love to do video at some point. How about you?
Barry Conrad
Yeah, I mean, the sky's the limit. I definitely think, obviously, advancing and growing in the depth of what we share, more community stories, more science, more collaborations. I see some live events, live little pop-ups, a live little meet and greets in the future. That could be really fun.
Maybe even bringing listeners into the show in new ways, like having them call in or leave their questions in a voice note format so we can play it and then answer it. That could be really fun to hear your beautiful voices, just expanding it. And I do agree with the video and I do think about that a lot. There's a way to make that happen because I just think visually, it's just so fun. I wish people could see us laughing and talking and it'd be really fun to do, I think. And if logistically, we can't do it in the same place, even doing some where we can, I don't know, just get high quality. I mean, what do you think of even before doing it in IRL, even doing the whole filming thing? Is that bleak doing that? You know how some people do that on a camera?
Melanie Avalon
like this video.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, do you know how often we do Zoom interviews and stuff like that?
Melanie Avalon
Yeah. So the thing is, it's like, I need your skills. Like doing videos like a whole... I mean, I'm open to it. And then at the same time, I wonder... I don't know how much... So here... And this is what I've been thinking about with my Mindblown podcast because we stopped... I don't know if I told you this. We stopped Mindblown because we're gonna... You probably saw it and I probably told you or it's probably in Facebook.
But we decided to relaunch it as video and we didn't want to do... The amount of effort and time and resources, both getting ready and editing and all the things to do video as a Zoom call, I don't know that that would substantially boost the numbers as an in-studio. There's something about a high quality in-studio. So it's like, if you're gonna do it, it's like, do it right or not right, but do it, go all the way. But then it's like, pardon me wonders, it's like, maybe if you and I did this as an in-studio, just made that work, however it may be, maybe that would just make the show skyrocket. Which would make it... I mean, I'd love to do it anyways, but it would... And we could turn into a YouTube thing too.
Barry Conrad
If there was like a lot of planning we could like smash out like batches of episodes. You know because i mean if you don't live in the same place i mean but that would also just require just planning logistics you know to make that things we do record.
Pretty well not every but we do like a couple of shows at a time when we do it so we just take some planning like to like a whole weekend of like. 10 episodes i don't know do you know in.
Melanie Avalon
I mean, yeah, because that's what Scott and I were talking about with Mindblown is we're saying, because we're going to test the waters with it and see how it goes. But basically the game plan would be like, we'll find the studio that feels really good and everything like that. And then have a trip and just do four episodes one day, four episodes, maybe the next day. So that's like two months of episodes or even five and five. So then it's like doing a trip every other month. And if it makes the show, well, it would be so much more fun.
But if it makes the show increase even more in listenership and audience than it would, as far as money and resources and finances, it would pay for itself if it creates that ROI.
Barry Conrad
Mm hmm. Totally.
I mean, that's the I mean, we've been to a BC, it's such a visual medium and people just like to see people in real time doing just how they react what their faces are doing when they're thinking just people like to like watch how other people just interact.
Melanie Avalon
And you know what we could do? We could dress up for all of them. So I could wear like one of my different gowns every time and you could wear one of your suits.
Barry Conrad
We could definitely dress up and just, or just get like styling for each episode. Like treat it like a whole, like proper, not a talk show, but you know, like that kind of thing, like have stylists have hair, make up the whole thing, lighting.
Just make it a thing.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, like I said, I would want to find like a really good studio that so I mean, I really want to do it.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, well, you know, we could think we could definitely.
Melanie Avalon
We've been talking about this, you know, and now that you're here, cause like when you were in Australia, it wasn't not an option, but now you're here.
Barry Conrad
If it's the whole idea of the whole concept of smashing out batches, take a trip and do that every other month, that's doable. It takes a bit of planning with questions and prep and stuff like that, but it's less time.
You smash it all out in a week, a couple of days or so, and then that's done.
Melanie Avalon
I think, okay, now I feel like we actually do have to do this.
Barry Conrad
Well, you know, like 2026 could be the year of like giving it a good crack. I mean, why not?
I mean, it could only not work or not work. I mean, I think it could only work because it's seeing us. I mean, why wouldn't people want to interact, you know?
Melanie Avalon
We should, you know, we should at least, okay, here's the thing. Cause I think what's intimidating is not intimidating, but what's a little bit overwhelming is like, can we sustain it?
Can we keep doing that? But we could just trial it. So we could record like eight episodes and a trip and we can see, cause I think we would know after airing eight, eight episodes, it like, is this affecting? We know what, what is this doing and can we keep doing it? And if we can keep doing it and it is great and we put on YouTube as well, then we keep doing it.
Barry Conrad
And if not, we can just revert back and all and the thing is people still get the audio on nothing changes for them that can still listen to it on the preferred platform and then what particular watch it on youtube and whatever so it's great.
Melanie Avalon
And it could be like a YouTube show too. So yeah, and we could even okay. Yeah, we should okay. We'll talk We'll talk more Call me
Barry Conrad
And also we could we could even like have like a little like i don't know how this would work but even have like a cheese and you know we do a restaurant segment you know stop just stuff like that make it really cool like and have like different intro tiles for each segment that flashes on the screen you know i just see it okay
Melanie Avalon
We're going to, listeners, let us know if this is something that I know like I've pulled in the group before about Mindblown, but I haven't about this show. We should pull.
I need to make a note because there's something we're going to pull from last time. What was it? It was like it wasn't related to fasting.
Barry Conrad
It was phones, phones at the table.
Melanie Avalon
Yeah, yeah. Oh, that was this episode. OK, yes.
Barry Conrad
But so many possibilities, which is exciting.
Melanie Avalon
I know, it's like the sky's the limit. I actually have a project I can't really talk about yet, but I might be doing a really fun video-related project in the new year, so we shall see.
Yeah, I can tell you about it offline.
Barry Conrad
Which which makes me excited because I know that you don't you know crazy about videos so anything that gets you to do it is great. Yes
Melanie Avalon
Yes. It's more like the time and energy, but okay. Shall we go to our last question? Let's do it.
So last question of part two anniversary episode. What is one thing about the other hosts that listeners may not realize but absolutely should?
Barry Conrad
Oh my gosh. There's so many different ways I could go with this. Wow, what can I say? I was thinking about a funny thing and then I was thinking just like a genuine nice thing. Okay, I'll probably share both.
Well, you listeners may or may not know this, but if you don't know this about Melanie, this is like the funny, unique thing is that she does not like to travel for more than a day. She's not good at traveling. She doesn't like it. She doesn't. She, you know, I've asked her several times like, what if you had to go here and it was for this? It's like, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't be there. It's like, why not? It's like, you could do it. It's like, no, I need too many things. I need a suitcase for my supplements. I need a suitcase for this and a suitcase for all the things that I need to feel good. So she's not a great traveler and I know that she wants to get better at traveling, but she does not enjoy it, I should say.
Melanie Avalon
And I'm not a morning person. So a lot of the things that you asked me, those situations, it's like, would you travel and like do this thing at 9am? Like, would you meet Peter at Tia at 9am? Like, I don't know.
Barry Conrad
Well, you know what, if we did the video thing, what if we had to, what if the, okay. This is another scenario.
What if the podcast studio that we really love. Oh, they do mornings. Nope. From 9AM to like, you would say no. No. So we filming at like midnight. Oh, wow. I'll be like 2AM the studio. And then I should say, and this is easy for me to say, Melanie is one of just the most caring, integrous, genuine, honest, funny people that I know. And it's a real joy and pleasure. Not just doing the show with you, but just knowing you and being your friend. So if listeners don't know that you've heard it from me, there you go.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, my goodness. Thank you so much.
I'm going to treasure that. Oh, you're all of those characteristics as well, so much. So the thing that I actually thought about this, and there's so many things, I think one of the characteristics about you that I most appreciate that listeners might not realize, but absolutely should, is this actually came up a little bit, I think, in this episode when I was talking or last episode. Oh, it was last episode where I was talking about my first impression of you and you made a comment about you're not offended or anything like that. So there's only a few, not say there's only a few, but a lot of people, even if it's good friendships, good relationships, there are things you have to tiptoe around. A lot of people are tiptoey, like you got to know people's triggers or things that people can't talk about or you're worried about offending somebody. I never have that. Like, I feel so like psychological safety, I feel very safe with you. Like talking with you, I feel like we can talk about anything. And it takes a really evolved person with their ego to be that type of person where you're not, even if you are offended, you're not like, you know, it's not the other person. So you're like highly emotionally intelligent. And I I just really appreciate that we can talk about all the things. And I'm just never worried about how you're going to react.
Barry Conrad
That really means a lot. Thank you so much for saying that. Thank you.
Melanie Avalon
I mean, it's such I feel like it's like the quality that would just, I mean, there are a lot of qualities that would really help the world. But if everybody could have that quality, we wouldn't have like the conflict that we have today, because we could just be safe with each other, even if we have different opinions.
Barry Conrad
I feel the same way about you. I like that we're both direct and at the same time, not direct in a blunt way, but direct and honest, and we don't shy away from having different opinions about things and we can talk about anything.
That's a really cool place to be in because a lot of people, you're right, you don't know how they're going to react or take things, you know what I mean? Even friends, really good friends.
Melanie Avalon
So I can feel like we can talk about any topic. I also can totally like shut you down and you won't hate me. So
Barry Conrad
Like the row thing? Yeah, you can, you're sitting in a different row. Yeah, you can sit with me. I'm not going to sit with you here.
Melanie Avalon
or morning or traveling. No, no, no. And then I was, I'm trying to decide if we should, we have like a mutual thing that listeners might not realize about the show, which we could share.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, let's share it.
Melanie Avalon
Do you know what it is? It's something that we do on some shows.
Barry Conrad
Ah, we should definitely, we should share it.
Melanie Avalon
It's not every show, but sometimes listeners, when we are having our proverbial breaking of the fast, we also literally break our fast with a glass of wine. You can see going forward if you can tell which episodes it is.
Barry Conrad
You should write and say, that's why they sounded like, well, what were they saying?
Melanie Avalon
Sometimes I'm like, oh man, thank you, editors.
Barry Conrad
Yeah, thank you, editors. Thank you very much.
Melanie Avalon
But yeah, that is, that has been, that's definitely something we've never, I've never done on the show before, so. It's fun though. It's so fun.
Which, so speaking of, shall we have our proverbial breaking of the fast moment? Yes. Maybe without wine, listeners can try to figure it out.
Barry Conrad
That's very funny.
Melanie Avalon
All right friends so here we go and the purpose of this part of the show which again is one of my favorite parts about the format that Barry Conrad and I have and it's that we think it is very important to celebrate the eating window just as much as the fasting window because that is when you're really getting a lot of the benefits from fasting actually that's when you're assimilating your nutrition rebuilding your body rebuilding you know optimizing your immune system all the things. So each week we feature a restaurant where we would go and break our fast and this week we have one that should be anniversary ready.
Barry Conrad
Yes, and yeah, this restaurant that I'm bringing for this second part of this double anniversary episode special is River Cafe in Brooklyn, New York, and essentially the link, Mel.
Melanie Avalon
Oh my goodness, look at all the fairy lights!
Barry Conrad
It's one of the most iconic, and I don't use that word lightly, iconic anniversary restaurants in America known for engagement photos in the waterfront and skyline views of Manhattan and the Brooklyn Bridge fully a la carte with classics like lobster, rack of lamb, seasonal pastas, lean, polished without becoming precious. The wine list is deep cellar with standout champagne and Bordeaux ideal for milestone celebrations and the vibe is romantic, elegant candle at the kind of place couples book a year in advance for anniversary or proposal nights so it's a quite a big, big deal this place.
Melanie Avalon
Oh my goodness. So this is the, at least like the picture on the main website of the outside, the magical like fairy light vibe with plants and everything is my favorite. I think we've talked about this like lighting, so important, so important. First thing I do when I go somewhere, if I can adjust the lighting, I will. I'm that person.
Okay, shall we look at the menu?
Barry Conrad
So let's click on the dinner menu and I'll.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, look at the first thing on the appetizer list.
Barry Conrad
Finally, cause I think the past couple episodes are kind of gone easy on the oysters, but they hear a plenty this time. So, but if you scroll down all this, honestly, there's honestly, before we choose our things, there's so much, so many options.
It's so good. Oh my goodness. Starting with the appetizer, Melanie, what do you, what is catching you?
Melanie Avalon
this is like my dream. Okay. Whoa. Those are all app. Whoa. Okay. Let me make this smaller because we can't see everything. Okay. There are so many appetizers.
Barry Conrad
Amazing ones you have to have one you could have several.
Melanie Avalon
Wow. We've talked about octopus before, right? Yes. You have had it.
Barry Conrad
I love it. It's very, very good. And it never disappoints.
It's a little bit chewy, but I don't know that that's not a bad thing. I like it. Some people don't like the consistency. I love it. It's really good.
Melanie Avalon
Okay, there's so many things I want. Should we go back and forth? Should we? What should we do?
Barry Conrad
Yeah, let's go back and forth.
Melanie Avalon
Okay, so first one, I really definitely, oh my goodness, I want the rabbit, which is pancetta. Wait, is it pancetta or pancetta? It's pancetta, right?
Pancetta wrapped roasted rabbit loin, artichoke, and rabbit lasagna, oven-dried tomato pesto, rabbit juice. And I wanna get the, whatever they can put on the side. Well, I need everything on the side. So have you had rabbit?
Barry Conrad
I have, I had rabbit and antenna reef a couple of years ago for the first time. It was so good. It's so delicious.
Melanie Avalon
It's really lean, right? It's the reason we have the word rabbit starvation. Do you know about this? So have you heard of rabbit starvation? This actually relates to protein.
Barry Conrad
I don't think so.
Melanie Avalon
So there's this idea that if you eat too much protein or high protein, that you get rabbit starvation. But it's not about... And there's this idea that it comes from the protein toxicity, but that's not true because rabbit starvation was when... I don't know. It's also called protein poisoning. And it's what happens when somebody eats almost only lean protein. But the key is there has to be no fat or carbohydrates.
And okay, so it's from the early explorers who tried to survive on very lean wild rabbits during harsh winters. And the idea is your body can't run on protein alone. Your liver can't process it. But I think what's really important to know is that it's not so much too much protein. It's that you don't... It's zero fat. So you don't have any of the other accompanying nutrients that you need. And so that's why rabbit starvation and this idea of high protein being bad, it's more than just the protein. Wow. Interesting. How about you? How about your next one?
Barry Conrad
So the first one i'm gonna do is the river cafe oysters have to do it it's river cafe oysters warm lemon glazed boa soleil oysters caramelized sweet onion speck ham pacific sturgeon caviar yum.
Melanie Avalon
Nice, I will not be having that. I'll have a bite of the caviar
Barry Conrad
Maybe because it's the anniversary might maybe kind of sort of maybe kind of try one of those days.
Melanie Avalon
I will try it. I won't like it, but I will try it.
Barry Conrad
What's your second addition?
Melanie Avalon
Okay, there's two I really want. So I actually, I know you know that I don't like to get scallops as my entree, but I will get it as an appetizer and especially this situation because it's a pork belly scallop duet. So slow cooked heritage pork belly, seared main sea scallop, pink pineapple, toasted macadamia, smoky pork juice. Okay, yes, that's amazing.
Again, everything on the side, please, but heritage pork belly with a seared scallop. It sounds like pure bliss, like that bite is probably just pure bliss.
Barry Conrad
That sounds amazing. I'm actually going to go with hot foie gras, because I actually got into this in Sydney shortly before coming maybe the last couple of years. I like foie gras. It's really, really good.
Sauté duck foie gras, sautens, poached quince, pistachio, main produce, confit, fadalia, onion.
Melanie Avalon
And it's hot.
Barry Conrad
And it's hot, so that'll be really, really delicious.
Melanie Avalon
I don't know that I've, I think I've only briefly tasted foie gras.
Barry Conrad
Really? I'm really surprised that you haven't tried it.
Melanie Avalon
I do feel, I mean, I have had it, it was very delicious. I do feel, I feel bad about like the situation, but, cause it's basically like fatty liver.
It's basically like, it's probably, I'm gonna go like a cannibal route. It's like if we had fatty liver, what it would taste like, but, but it is delicious and I will try it. My third one, speaking of actually kind of similar situation, like the fattiness, so the Wagyu steak tartare. I love steak tartare so much. So this is hand cut Kobe style beef with quail egg. Oh, I like quail egg. Cognat Gillet, traditional garnish, toast points. So I will get that all on the side. I'm really excited about the quail egg. I'm assuming, I wonder if it's like legit, it probably is like the, like the Wagyu Kobe, you know, like the, the real thing.
Barry Conrad
And I will get octopus. It's Portuguese octopus, seed, a la planta, heirloom, fingerling, potato, aragula leaves, classic romesco sauce. Sounds so good. What a table of appetizers.
Melanie Avalon
This menu is absolutely perfect. What does it mean? I should know this. Sierra de la Plancia. Is that on a plank or no?
Barry Conrad
It means cooking food on a very hot metal plate.
Melanie Avalon
Awesome. Okay. And I do like that they call it appetizers.
Barry Conrad
and so we move on to the main course.
Melanie Avalon
Yes, please.
Barry Conrad
Look at those options over there.
Melanie Avalon
Oh my goodness, this menu is perfect. It's like the perfect menu, the perfect vibe. We have to go here.
Okay, so after we launch our video version and we go on YouTube and then when we get our plaque, like the YouTube award plaque, which now I've decided we have to do this, this is where I wanna go to celebrate here.
Barry Conrad
So we've got to do it.
Melanie Avalon
This might be my favorite restaurant that you've picked.
Barry Conrad
It's a, I'm really glad that I picked this too. I was like, what a good find. It looks amazing and I have to try it because it's right here.
Melanie Avalon
Did you Google anniversary restaurants?
Barry Conrad
something like that, yeah, but I fine-tuned it a little bit.
Melanie Avalon
Fine-tuned. Perfect. Okay. This is so amazing and hard.
Barry Conrad
I know what I'm getting.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, okay. I know I do. I think I do. I have to ask some questions, but what are you getting?
Barry Conrad
What would you want to go first? You can go first.
Okay. I'm getting two things. I'm getting the lamb, which is roasted colorado, rack of lamb, Moge sausage, stuffed baby eggplant, English pea puree, natural lamb reduction. And.
Melanie Avalon
How are you getting it cooked?
Barry Conrad
I'm going to go medium rare and then I'm also going to get the lobster, which is poached Nova Scotia lobster, tail baked lobster, Thermador gratin, Tuscan kale, crisp, salsa, fi fondant potato, mild lemon sauce. That sounds so good.
Melanie Avalon
I thought you were going to get the lobster.
Barry Conrad
Really? A lot. I just can't wait. This looks great. What about you?
Melanie Avalon
So I want, I need to talk to them about this because, so the venison, you know, I love venison, shout out to Maui Nui, but it's pan roasted venison loin. So I want to know how it's actually prepared.
And like, does that mean it's like a sauce situation or like, I don't know, I would like to get it plain. It comes with caramelized root vegetables, braised red cabbage, chestnuts, spacial. I can actually say that. Or spatula. I should know this. It's German. Young pine cone infused venison juice. Have you had pine cone infused anything before?
Barry Conrad
I don't think so, I can't say I have.
Melanie Avalon
I didn't know you could flavor things with pinecone. Do they have pinecones in Australia?
Barry Conrad
I think they do, but it's not something that I'm more saw around like Cape Town, South Africa. Not really.
Melanie Avalon
Well, that sounds really good. So if they can make it plain for me and then everything on the side, that, and then I love, I love Bronzino, which is also called Branzino, I think. So I love Bronzino and it is Mediterranean sea bass wild shrimp crust. Oh, interesting.
Stuffed artichoke, taproot, broccoli, artichoke, and olive oil sauce. So if they can make it, because I'm assuming it's probably like a breading situation, so if they can make it without the wild shrimp crust or if they can just like adjust that a little bit and then put everything on the side. I love this fish and it tends to be lower in mercury as well.
Barry Conrad
Delicious, sounds so good. Is anything catching your eye for the dessert menu?
Melanie Avalon
Well, I know what I want. I'm probably going to have more of the appetizers.
So probably more like, especially since I didn't get like a steak or beef, I'm going to be having a craving. Like I want to fill that, that beef craving. So I might get more of the Wagyu tartar. Maybe.
Barry Conrad
Oh, wow. That sounds great.
I'm going to get the Chocolate Brooklyn Bridge, which is actually highlighted in orange, so it must be really, really good. Dark chocolate, my Keith, passion fruit ice cream, banana macadamia ganache, banana spuma. I don't even know what that is, but it sounds really good. And it's also highlighted on the dessert menu, so that's me. And then also some artisanal cheeses, because I love cheeses.
Melanie Avalon
I was hoping you would get that. I love a good cheese plate. I probably won't have any, but I would like to see them.
I would like to hear about them, because we know at this type of restaurant, if you get a cheese plate, they're gonna talk you through the cheese plate, and I love that. And then you can tell me what you think.
Barry Conrad
I sure can. And then also, if we click on the wine program now, it'll take us to a page and then this highlighted text that says the River cafes wine list.
So if you're going to click on that, it'll take us to a whole lot of a big assortment of a lot, actually.
Melanie Avalon
Is this just the wines or the cocktails as well?
Barry Conrad
Wow, they've got so many wines. I feel confident saying that you'll find something you would like here.
Melanie Avalon
This is definitely the type of list that I would need to take some time with, and there's a lot. Oh my goodness, there's so many. This is all by the bottle, though.
Barry Conrad
So extensive, but I think I would definitely like to get some champagne to start because send in anniversary vibes.
Melanie Avalon
Yes, a dry champagne. Do they have like a rosé champagne? They do they have I've had that before though Oh, that's a rosé wine. Okay champagne We can get like a oh they do they have a brute rosé
Barry Conrad
Perfect doing that. That's me. I reckon I'll be doing that.
Melanie Avalon
then the reds. So I would have to take some time and I would probably get something European, France, maybe a Gamay or a Cap Franc, but I feel very good about finding something here for sure. We don't have to sneak in my wine. We'll be good.
Awesome, awesome. How far is this from you? What part of New York?
Barry Conrad
So this is based in Brooklyn, which is basically where I live in Brooklyn, Brooklyn, New York. So it's not far at all.
You should go. I know. You know what? I'm actually going to make a note. I definitely have to go.
Melanie Avalon
You should go to the bar at the very least, you know, because you might not be able to get like a reservation. But I'm assuming you could probably go to the bar.
Oh, I found the, I found the bar, the cocktail bar. Oh, I found the menu. So go to information and then cocktail bar.
Barry Conrad
Apple martini actually sounds really good. I've actually been getting into martinis lately.
Melanie Avalon
Oh, really? Is that your new thing?
Barry Conrad
Yeah, green apple cordial pinau de char, I'm getting this wrong, charantes, soca, sorghum spirit, cardamon. I reckon I'm gonna do that.
Melanie Avalon
So two questions for you about the martinis because having been a server in fine dining for five years, when you get the martini drinker, it's like it is both, it's a good thing and a bad thing. It's a good thing because martini drinkers, they're probably going to order a lot of expensive food. They're probably going to tip.
Well, they're also probably going to be, I don't want to say obnoxious, but I wouldn't be obnoxious. They have a lot of requests about martinis. So when you order a martini, like not like a themed one, but like just like a straight up martini, how do you order it?
Barry Conrad
Gin Matine Dirty with two olives.
Melanie Avalon
See, it's always like a specific number of olives. Are they blue cheese stuffed olives? No. Okay, so just two olives.
And why do you think that is? Like why is it like there's a certain number that you need?
Barry Conrad
Well, 2 or 3. If they're big, I'll do 2. If they're small, I'll do 3.
Melanie Avalon
Okay, slightly dirty. Yeah. There you go. Awesome. Well, I am so excited. We will go here when we get our YouTube plaque.
Barry Conrad
Done. We got to do it. Celebratory vibes.
Melanie Avalon
make a note. So friends, thank you so much for being here with us over all the years, and especially this past year that Barry has been here. It has been so incredible. This was so fun talking about all the memories and all the things.
And now we have to plan, we're going to plan our episode 500, something special for that. And then we will plan our two year anniversary as well. So please send us ideas and thoughts. And you can do that by emailing questions at ifodcast.com, or you can go to ifpodcast.com and submit questions there. The show notes for today's episode will be at ifpodcast.com slash episode 457. And you can follow us on Instagram. I am Melanie Avalon, Barry is Barry underscore Conrad, and we are IF Podcast. I think that is all the things. Anything from you, Barry, before we go?
Barry Conrad
Thank you so much once again for tuning in, everyone, for listening, for being with us, and here's to many, many more. See you next week.
Melanie Avalon
Yes. See you next week. Bye.
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